I’ve been decluttering all wrong.
In times of overwhelm, I declutter. There’s something about having control over the things I own, and how much of it, that brings me a sense of calm. Sometimes, I feel like my personal space is the only thing I can control and decluttering gives me that. My childhood home routinely felt contentious. I grew up with an alcoholic father and "walking on eggshells" was a part of my day. Naturally, I developed some…