Writing this post of the heels of my 5 Easy Ways to Help you Stop Shopping post seems like a good idea, and not one that I had planned. But sometimes, good things happen in pairs. And my decision to truly embrace a slower wardrobe this year seems serendipitous in a way.
I recently revealed in a post on Instagram that I added 6 new items to my wardrobe in 1 month, from December 4th to January 2nd. I had actually ordered 8 but I sent 2 of the items back. I found myself constantly checking The Real Real (a secondhand consignment shop) for their latest additions and adding things to my favorites list, knowing that as soon as they hit the right price, I would buy them.
What were those final purchases that made me decide on a slower wardrobe this year?
Here are 5 of the items (the 6th is a pair of grey wool pants that I have yet to alter):
I don’t regret any of these purchases. I know that they are pieces that I will keep and wear for a very long time, which is always the main criteria for a new wardrobe addition.
But purchasing at this rate, even if they are secondhand items, is not sustainable.
How the Idea for a Slower Wardrobe Took Shape
I felt like I was spending all of my free time looking for things to buy. And this feeling was all too familiar. It’s this feeling of “needing” something new that I have worked so hard to quiet over the past 5 years.
I can justify all of this by saying that 2020 was a shit year, and it was, and if I shopped more than I had planned, it’s okay. It was obviously a coping mechanism for the past 8 months of isolation as I’ve stayed at home as much as I possibly can.
But if I’m being honest, I’m so tired of buying things that I don’t need. Of spending money on things to add to a wardrobe that I’ve already spent so much time curating. It feels excessive. It is excessive.
There are people facing real struggles right now, so my bemoaning the fact that I bought too many clothes over the last year seems very privileged. And it is privileged. It is such a privileged problem to have too many clothes. But it’s also a major problem in our society.
We’ve been trained to buy, buy, buy, no matter what situations we’re in. We’re encouraged to go and buy something to celebrate. We’re encouraged to buy when we’re bored. We’re encouraged to buy for every new event. We’re encouraged to buy when we’re sad.
To truly slow down our clothing purchases, we need to rid ourselves of this way of thinking.
What My Steps for a Slower Wardrobe Resolution Look Like
After doing a lot of thinking about the current state of my wardrobe this past weekend, these are the guidelines that I have come up with for a slower wardrobe in 2021:
✨ I have decided that I will not purchase any more clothing this year, either secondhand or new. I will replace essential items such as underwear or socks, if needed.
✨ I will permit myself to sew new clothes as I desire using the fabric that I already own or with fabric that I can find secondhand (home decor items such as bedsheets, curtains, show curtains and table clothes will be my primary source). I must use my existing stack of fabric first…
I have had most of this fabric sitting around for a while. I also have a vintage quilt that I would like to make into a coat. I experience a lot of indecisiveness when I’m trying to find the perfect pattern for a particular pattern for fear that I will choose the wrong one. I am trying to get better about this so that I can actually make a couple of special garments this year.
✨ I will enjoy the things that I already own. I will rewear them. I will style them into new and exciting combinations. I will experiment with different capsule wardrobes. I will try different clothing challenges.
Are you working towards a slower wardrobe this year?
If you are and you have an instagram account, please use the hashtag #slowerwardrobe so that we can connect.
Until next time,
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Love this. I have always been a compulsive shopper. Slowing down is such a great idea. And getting my bills paid off.
I have been in the exact same place. The first step is definitely making the decision to slow down and consume less, which it sounds like you have done. That’s amazing! The next step is to remove the temptation to shop. You can do this!!
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